Couple tattoos: they can spark debate. Some might wince at the idea of matching ink, while others see it as the ultimate romantic gesture, a permanent shout-out to their love. No matter where you stand, the truth is, what matters most is what feels right for you and your partner.
If you’re intrigued by the idea but leaning towards something a bit more understated, Small Couple Tattoos could be the perfect middle ground. Why are these smaller, more delicate designs gaining popularity, and could they be the right choice for you and your significant other?
Why Go Small for Your Couple Tattoo?
Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT, a relationship expert, explains that any tattoo, including a small couple tattoo, acts as a lasting, physical reminder. “Seeing a tattoo can trigger emotions and memories. A small matching tattoo can evoke feelings of belonging, joy, and commitment to your partner,” she notes.
For couples considering inking up together, the experience itself can be a bonding one. “Sharing an experience, like getting tattoos together, can definitely strengthen a couple’s connection,” Wright says. However, she wisely adds that tattoos aren’t a relationship fix-all. “The impact really depends on the relationship itself and what you both hope the tattoo will symbolize.”
What Do Small Matching Tattoos Mean?
While the meaning of any tattoo is deeply personal, tattoo artist Saem Kim suggests that couple tattoos have evolved. “Historically, matching tattoos sometimes felt possessive, but now, I often see them as a celebration of friendship and love,” Kim tells Glamour. Small couple tattoos fit perfectly into this modern interpretation, offering a subtle yet significant symbol of connection.
Kim points out trends influencing tattoo choices, “We see inspiration from jewelry, like linked bracelets, or connecting initials. Small, minimalist designs can represent this connection beautifully, or even mark shared challenges and the bond formed through them.”
Things to Think About Before Getting Inked (Small or Not)
Thinking about getting small couple tattoos? Experts advise asking yourselves some important questions. What if the relationship changes in the future? How will you feel about seeing this tattoo every day? “What’s your ‘why’ for this tattoo? Why this tattoo, together? What does it mean to you both?” Wright emphasizes. And most importantly, have an open and honest conversation with your partner to make sure you’re both on the same page before you commit to the ink.